Softening is rather transforming stops into fricatives. Normally, fricatives are "easier" (less "tiring" for the mouth) to pronounce between vowels, than stops. It's more relaxing. You let the air going through your mouth instead of stopping it.
That's why it's considered as a lenition ie. weakening.
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mo chófra....that "ch" sound is not softened but hardened, if you are a native English speaker...it's more gutteral.
yes but "to harden" in phonetics means that a voiced consonant becomes voiceless, it has nothing to see with what an English ear perceives as guttural or not. Btw there's no hardening mutation in Irish grammar. There is in Cornish and in Breton though.
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Stop thinking in letters....they do not exist! Think in sounds and heartbeats
and learn the names of the mutations as they are: lenition/séimhiú, eclipsis/urú, prefixing h, prefixing t.